So, I'll start with a bit about myself, I'm a 25yr old single mum to one little boy, who we'll call T.J. T.J is almost two and very energectic!! I try my best to be an attachment parent, by this we bed share, T.J was breastfed until self weaned (20months). I don't believe in crying it out (CIO) or controlled crying (CC) I treat TJ in the same way I would like to be treated, with respect and love. I'm a stay at home mum but TJ does spend 8hrs a week in home based care. We spend our days playing, getting messy and having fun.